You turn 22 years old tomorrow and this year you are celebrating in the midst of a pandemic. Another memorable celebration with all your loved ones awaits tomorrow; a Mickey mouse cake, your favourite food, and all the things you told mum you wanted for your birthday weeks ago. What an amazing life you have lived so far and how many experiences you have grown through.
You mesmerise me with your brain, your intelligence and how you keep surprising us all every day. Like how you know dad hides the laundry you ask him to wash every day and you have to remind him to take it out of hiding when he’s packing your things, or how you take care of mum when she needs it the most. People might think we can outsmart you but, damn boy, you put us all to shame with your perception and keep us on our toes.
You make me laugh out loud when you say you don’t want to go for a walk because you’re cold, but its 30 degrees outside and you’re sat in an air-conditioned room. Or when you start laughing just to turn our frowns upside down. You keep our family sane and safe, reminding them to wash up, bring in the clothes when it starts to rain, drink their tea before it gets cold and making them all smile with your wit. Thank you for taking care of them.
I live off the seconds I get to see you on video chat to hear you shouting at me to hang up the phone. That’s all I get and that’s okay. I am so proud of you and I can’t wait to see you again, grab your chin and force you to kiss me 10 times.
Happy birthday my little brother, I more than love you, more than miss you.
FYI: If you want to help our cause during the Covid-19 pandemic, I am selling off my paintings to raise money for SMILE School in Famagusta, Cyprus. SMILE, like all schools, has been closed due to Covid-19 and our boys are being home-schooled, it’s easier for some more than others. It’s distressing for us to stay at home, but even more when you rely on that sense of routine and repetition to get through the day. When parents have to divide their time to further the education of all their children, neurotypical or not, as well as keeping the peace, maintaining the household etc. Your donation can help with getting supplies to educate our boys in art, math, cooking, baking, to entertain them with music, films etc or to help with paying rent or utilities so that the boys have somewhere to return to when all this is over.
Read more about SMILE on the blog and pick a painting you like. Make us an offer! These are difficult times, so I won’t price them. It’s up to you to bid and, once confirmed, donate directly to the school.